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Saturday, March 17, 2007

Growing Up

Love is like a hundred butterflies fluttering in your heart.

It seems like everywhere I turn, there is love everywhere. So many of my friends are getting married, already married and having children. As I look at my little cousins, I get reminded of myself and my childhood. Man, it feels like it was ages ago. I mean, I had forgotten a lot of things, but after living with people so young and so small and living with a thousand toys in your room (and sometimes finding some buried in your bed or waking up to a beeping tamagotchi), it's hard not to remember things and think back.

I remember feeling really small and tiny when I was in kindergarten, and looked upto the 'big kids' in Year 6 and thought we had ages to go until being one of them. When the time came and we were in Year 6, we all thought we were 'adults' and knew everything then. Then we started high school, and then we became the babies of the school again and reality kicked in that we still didn't know anything and had many more years till we were the 'big kids' again. It had seemed like agaes. Now that I've finished uni and am working, I still think there's so much to learn and know. I still feel like a baby at times. Then I see my friends who I went to school with, starting families and doing these grown up things, and I think to myself, "When did we grow up so fast?" It seemed like it was still ages to go till we were in high school, and university and getting married.....

As one of my friends wrote on her blog, it seems like there is a boom in marriage. Everyone seems to be getting married and having babies. I guess this is a good thing though.

4 Comments:

  • At 12:59 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    Being all grown up is way overrated. If nothing else, the day I had to start giving out 紅包 at New Years instead of receiving them, I knew being a kid was much better (^o^;)

    I have a lot of friends getting married the last few years as well, but since most of my friends are now in the early 30s, I guess that's to be expected. Very few people I know got married before they were 25, but they are all separated now except for 1 couple. I think they married too young before they really knew what they wanted in life. Then again, I can't understand why anyone would want to get married in the first place, so what would I know (^_^;)

     
  • At 1:03 PM, Blogger flutteringbutterfly85 said…

    alex,
    It's overrated is it? Yes, I found out it was much much better being a kid a few years ago too. Even just being a teenager in school is os much better, cuz all you have to really worry about is school.
    *sigh* we are just too old now...

    My friends are the same age as me, and they are married, and I have a feeling a lot more are gonna tie the knot really really soon...

    I seriously can't understand why you wouldn't wanna get married?

    It scares me, before when we were in school and had sleepovers with the girls, we talked aobut boyfriends and stuff, lately it's been about how many children we want and what kind of wedding...

     
  • At 12:50 AM, Blogger Calendar said…

    yea it sure is scary! growing up.. getting married...settling down... ARH!

    why think about that now, we still have time! live it up abit now! before we cant anymore! ^-^

     
  • At 9:27 AM, Blogger flutteringbutterfly85 said…

    kawyn,
    Yes!! you are so right girl!! We shall live it up!!

     

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